Despite her life threatening medical condition, Becky Kennel discovered what hope and strength writing could bring to herself and to others.
A young woman named Becky Kennel, 21, has lived with a heart condition since she was born. This heart condition required a Fontan Surgery which years later resulted in Becky developing Protein Losing Enteropathy (PLE), a rare disease with a 56% mortality rate.
Even with such a dark cloud overhead, Becky was determined to not let it stand in her way. She soon discovered a love for writing, especially fan fiction of her favorite shows, Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles and Pokemon.
Spending days at home with her home health care aid, Becky poured her time and energy into writing stories that reflected how she saw the world. With her empathetic spirit, she wrote about people (well… turtles) that faced the same rejection and loneliness she did and wrote about the redeeming power of family, friendship, and love.
Unfortunately, Becky passed away wrapped in her ninja turtles blanket on June 11th, 2014 at 10:45 due to complications with her medical conditions. She fought until the very last breath with a peace and optimism that seemed superhuman.Many people didn’t see the creative spark or the loving heart of this very special young lady. But the people she did interact with knew they were loved unconditionally. And I, being her big sister, felt the best thing I could do would be to share her stories with the world. Well, BuzzFeed anyway. So here you go, my dearest sister. I love you very much and I hope to see you again someday. Rest in Peace. If you’re interested in her story or her stories, please check out her fan fiction page. https://www.fanfiction.net/u/4476598/
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Thank you all, from the bottom of our hearts.
Fall foliage, cool weather and pumpkin-flavored everything signal Thanksgiving is just around the corner.
But before you get ready to break out your fat pants and accept that Thanksgiving is the season of weight gain, consider these easy tricks to keep your exercise and waistband in check through the holidays.
You can squeeze these exercises into your downtime easily. And of course, as important as exercise is, its just as important to help yourself avoid temptation and overeating.
Here are five exercise tips to make sure you dont compromise your wellness routine during the holidays:
If you are a fan of Thanksgiving food and who isnt? its easy for you to overeat without even realizing it.
This is especially true if you are cooking the meal because you will likely taste things as you go, as the smell of turkey in the air makes you oh-so hungry.
Avoid this by starting the day off right. Get some exercise in before sitting down for breakfast, even if its a quick yoga session.
This will help set the tone for the day and remind you that your healthy lifestyle isnt going to completely go out the window.
Limit the all-day grazing by sitting down and having a healthy breakfast and lunch. No matter how busy your schedule is, make time to sit down and chew your food.
By eating a healthy breakfast and lunch, the turkey aroma wont make you as hungry, and your body will recognize youve already had two meals.
You can exercise in the kitchen while youre cooking.
Try some of these exercises in the moments when youre not basting the turkey or mashing the potatoes:
1. Do sets of 20 squats after putting dishes in the dishwasher.
2. Hold a 30-second plank before every baste.
3. Knock out 10 push-ups after you finish peeling any vegetables.
Bonus tip: Dont undo your efforts. Once its time for digging into all the delicious foods, be mindful. Use a smaller plate so you arent tempted to fill it full and overeat. A smaller plate will trick you into eating smaller portions because it holds less food.
Keep in mind, the smaller plate only helps if you dont go back for extra servings. Moderation is key. You only need one plate of food to meet your nutritional and caloric needs.
Speaking of moderation, when you hit the dessert table, dont eat ALL the pies. Choose your favorite-absolutely-cannot-live-without-it single dessert for today, and enjoy it slowly with some coffee or tea and allow yourself another dessert tomorrow.
If you must indulge, make a deal with yourself that for each extra serving, you will exercise 30 minutes in the days to come.
Instead of trying to keep your exercise routine alone over the holidays, make it something the family participates in.
Before its time to put the turkey in the oven or while its cooking, gather the family for a walk or run around the neighborhood. You could even make it a race if you are feeling competitive, and make the incentive something like the winner gets to skip cleanup duty.
You might be surprised by how fast some people move.
Dont think you can get in enough exercise in one day to cancel out your Thanksgiving feast? That is unrealistic and will only lead to stress and disappointment.
Once you realize how many calories are in a serving of your favorite Thanksgiving foods, you will understand.
Instead of trying to do enough exercise to make up for what youd like to eat, just make sure you get some exercise every day and dont use Thanksgiving as an excuse to skip your regular activity.
Almost 40 percent of American workers clock in at least 50 hours of work each week. Its no wonder that once you get a holiday, all you want to do is lounge on the couch.
Who wants to get up and exercise on that rare day off, anyway?
Thats understandable, and no one can blame you for wanting a little rest and relaxation. Instead of looking at it as exercising, look at it as fun. Find an activity you enjoy doing, and use that for your exercise.
The idea is, you keep physically active over the holidays so you dont fall off the wagon and gain weight.
Turn on some music and have a dance party in your house while dinner is in the oven. Try to keep up with all of the performers during the Macys Parade.
Think outside of the box and consider things you love to do so you stay physically active without feeling the chore of exercise.
Thanksgiving doesnt have to be an excuse for overindulging and being lazy. You can still enjoy your favorite holiday foods and stick with your healthy lifestyle. You just have to know how to make it work.
These tips make exercise and healthy eating much more attainable and realistic. Which ones will you incorporate this holiday season?
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