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The darker your skin, the deeper the disdain

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ChrisEveryDay says:

Sotomayor was the only guy who specifically mentioned dark skin women. The
other men were talking about BW in general. It is well known that the
dark-light thing exists all over the world and among many cultures.

I still get your point though, the disdain for BW is so great that a guy
like Tommy Sotomayor can openly talk his talk and actually be considered as
some kind of enlightened Brotha. 

1titans says:

Its a small group of black men who dont like black women. And very few of
us care about complexion. 

maze201 says:

the black women of today are failing our race because they are raising
these black men & women as ratchets. They fuck with a low life ass nigga
and the nigga leaves & then the babies grow up rats…the numbers don’t lie
babygirl….the women gives birth to our nation and so far, it aint going
so good…lol

1titans says:

How is it that a NeNe Leaks has no shortage of black men, Star Jones been
married twice, all these subpar basketball wives and housewives of atlanta
have no shortage of black men at their disposal. But yet you giys aree
still preaching this nonsense. White men have always had access to you,
even during the civil rights movement they were having their way with you,
with your concent. Be careful of tje message some of you black females are
sending to the men who love you, or what you say about what you think most
of us feel towards black women will start to become a reality.

1titans says:

Chriseveryday, since I cant reply to single post Ill do it like this. The
fact that you typed what you did lets me know you dont read well, so here
we go. First part of what I typed is sayong black women have no shortage of
black men who want them, second part was not an attack on white men (you)
but stating that bw and wm have always hooked up, its actually something
new for bm and ww to IR. Third part, they going to turn the brothas who are
all about them away with this nonsense. Stay out of black folks business
chris

lineartechbd1600 says:

ve marie, would you like to hear a sad and disturbing fact? Black people,
both men and women, have so much self-hatred within them that you can pose
as a black woman and write a anti black man comment or pose as a black man
and write an anti black woman comment, come back weeks later and there will
be an ocean of black men and women going at each other’s throats, accusing,
blaming and insulting each other . You will also see many say things like,
‘this is why I am done with black men/women What does that tell you? That
tells me that black people suffer from extreme self-hatred and these modern
tools like the internet and youtube have served to amplify their self
hatred for each other Do not be tricked into thinking that youtube idiots
represent most black people. If not for youtube, these guys would just be
known as ‘crazy tommy’ or ‘crazy greg’.

Let me also school you about black men who choose white and latina women.
It is self hatred that makes them think anything that isn’t black is better
than black. There is really no difference between self=hatred in black men
vs black women. Both respond to blackness in the same way. Black women run
away from their blackness by wearing wigs , weaves, bleach and contacts
while the black men simply choose a woman who is as close to looking white
as possible.
Long ago I came to a conclusion that black people’s lack of knowledge of
their own history would cause black people to separate from each other
because when somebody doesn’t tell you what caused your group to be in the
position it is in, it leaves a wide open gap for the next popular theory
(as told by white racists) of ‘why we are where we are’ to come into that
vacuum and occupy the people’s beliefs. Unfortunately, the next popular
belief as taught to blacks over centuries of conditioning was that blacks
are subhuman and lack the human ability to act like proper human beings.
This is why these men and women hate themselves so much and if you pay
close attention, you will notice how much, for example, a black guy’s rant
about black women sounds so much like white people’s rants about the black
race. They can’t explain why things are the way they are so they blame each
other’s ‘subhuman’ ratchetness. The reason the nonsense on youtube doesn’t
bother me and make me emotional or pessimistic is because I have a very
good understanding of black history and I understand self hatred among my
own people very well. I understand that when people do not have real
understandings of why things are what they are, they tend to make up
theories. This , by the way, is why humans created the concept of god.
Also, always remember that any man who claims that whites or light skinned
women are ‘just prettier’, or what ever, doesn’t even understand the
concept of ‘subjectivity’. They think w hite and latina and light skinned
women are more attractive than dark skinned women because whites have
forced images of ugly dark skinned women down the world’s throat while
conditioning us with images of thin pretty white women. As a result, these
men associate attractiveness with whiteness and ugliness with dark skin.
Hollywood has had a net negative effect on black America. Hollywood casts
dark women as fat house maids with unpleasant attitudes and behavior and
these black men started to believe t hat that is what black women and white
women are like. Imagine there were a world where all of the black women
were portrayed as those attractive tyler Perry movie actresses while only
portraying fat , ugly and old white women in white roles, the shoe would be
on the other foot, right? In reality the average white woman isn’t nearly
as attractive as the average Hollywood starlet and black women are better
looking than the average negative black stereotype that you see on
television.

I think you would be better off pointing black women to really qualified
black professionals such as Dr Joy Dagrew, who talks about the psychology
of racism. Dr Francis Wesling Black Psychiatry, Dr Henrick Clark Black
historian Dr Claude Anderson Historian Dr Amos Wilson Dr Ivan Van Sertima
etc. You will learn history and you will get a better understanding of
why you see so many black people attacking each other on youtube. In
short, they are more concerned about why ‘massa’ don’t like them than they
are about bettering black America. Many of them just want to vent but since
they aren’t smart enough to put together an intelligent video, they stick
to the most basic things they know about , which is worldstarhiphop street
fights and girls going bonkers on city subway cars. It would be tragic if
you or any other black person allowed the dumbest , angriest most ignorant
among us, warp out perception of our selves.
People like these men you are posting, are doing more damage and more to
set black people back than you know. They are like trojan horses that are
delivering Klan rhetoric to us wrapped in a black package and some black
folks are too ignorant to not see it.

invisiblerevolution says:

I can’t agree with this video…..
I’m a black man this dark skin light skin is totally not an issue at all
with me. It’s 2014 I don’t know when we as a people are goin to get past
this lame ass issue???

Phillip Carroll says:

Black people resist the devil and he will flee from you ! if not then you
will go extinct!!! this is the most powerful form of anti black agenda
that this devil has ever produced!

Phillip Carroll says:

This video is some what true for some black men and women but not for the
most part! please understand that it also holds true for black women. and
yes go around YouTube! the sheer number of anti black male from black
women is like a 5-1 ratio!

sleepyccs says:

When called out on their colorism many BM go into denial and derail. I
expect no honesty from BM on this issue in my lifetime.

AfricanEye Candee says:

Oh well, this is sad but true. Bm like this are accusing bw of the very
things they have done but pretend never happened. They are the ones who
have been missing in action and not building up or functioning in the male
role for the benefit of their own race. But more like tyrants, and this is
just another chapter of the same behavior that has been evolving since the
end of the black power movement and the onset of integration. Now they see
being with non bw under another race of mens umbrella as the promised land
bc they dont have to do anything for themselves or take resp for their own
ppl. Just read the wm’s script, help build up, defend, and service another
race by denigrating his own. Ditching his own, and pretending his actions
and lack of participation have nothing to do with the state of the black
race by cowardly placing resp on the bw (his own seed) that he hates on,
rejects, and fails to be a man for. Yet he still wants to be treated like a
king and given respect by bw, and he still wants bw to have his back when
hes discriminated against by other races. All the while he joins with non
blacks to treat bw in the exact manner he begs and pleads to be spared
from. So this is what hes contributing to, a dependency upon the approval
of other races at the expense of his own in exchange for the short term
evil pleasure of looking down upon, and practicing misogynistic racism
against his own race as if thats some great contribution to it. What
clowns, whose sick aspiration is to emulate the wm in the very same ways
they claim to hate. 

Vince Rashaad says:

Robert Perkins known as Dat nigga wit the tattoos is one of the countless
black people who has a natural hair Facebook group. It also occurred to me
as I watch this that I get constant people adding me to fb groups that
target bw as women to appreciate. From dark skin to natural hair to black
relationships groups.
You almost have a laser focus on the most negative elements out there as a
justification for another motive that I’m guessing has white/Asians in the
future.
Tyrone Magnus gf Sara Caissey just did a vid called Real Black Women are
Ghetto. Most bw can’t get past the title to hear her on point msg. They
emotionally challenge her tone and not the substance of what she says.
People are fed up with not being able to tell a woman in a house on fire to
get out without her snapping that she won’t be ordered by anyone to exit
the building.
All those vids you showed except Steve Williams were guys who always go on
and on about bw. But doesn’t Steve have a legit question about parental
involvement? How was that hate/bashing. For God’s sake that’s a legitimate
question. HE basically said the house is on fire and you take that as hate?
Geeeeez
Tommy is just a nut at this point and any1 hearing him out deserves to be
offended.
But a razor focus on negativity when in all actuality there are many groups
and people with just as much positive to say is swimming in the sewer by
choice. I can’t imagine that you could date a bm and not have at least a
dozen pre conceived ideals that would ruin any attempt at forming a deep
connection. Even if the vibe was cool, you would seem to have too much of
an expectation of negative for anything to work.Especially when you say
most bm feel this way and that is just flatly false.
God bless and good luck in ur search for whoever of what ethnic race group
you choose too be with.
Look at the link in my vid interracism/interracial dating that i did last
week. You will see that you are trapped in a negative matrix. The
overwhelming majority of bm marry bw and yess that includes rich black
males and athletes.As Lashid4u pointed out, it’s IR couples that get put
front and center by media.

Black Gnostic says:

colorism starts with our mothers. Most children are unaware about their
color until their mother. The first thing a black mother is concerned about
(after health) is the baby’s color and hair texture. Black men are not the
cause but the symptom…


Pentazoid111 says:

I think that saying that the majority of black men don’t like dark skinned
black women is overreaching it JUST a little bit. The majority of black men
who are in relationships, long term or short term, are in relationships
with dark skinned black women

Doreen Parker says:

Black men always sold out to white women just study the blackamoors who
conquered Spain. Black women was always loyal to black men up until recent
history. And, now they mad black women r choosing white men please. Shit
they could not protect us from our slavemasters so why should we b loyal to
them.

ScripturesNoVainOpinions says:

Those men spoke the truth, Im not bugging off of color cause light and dark
skin black women in general are bogus..Men need to use them and wise up and
free themselves from these selfish women. If black men want a relationship
it has to be with women of the other nations only time a black man should
look to a black woman is if she is considerate,submissive etc which is
rare. 

Jenayelle says:

No, there aren’t ANY good black man out there… Black women need to ignore
them completely and date outside of their race.

JaneStone says:

+kafilarosa

Um girl. You sound cray. In the end you should wish peace for everyone. It
would be best if Black women who realize the reality of things can help the
younger generation of Black females. I’m thinking some kind of organization
where we could set up gatherings of younger Black girls, confronting
colorism and helping them to raise their self esteem. Maybe even combined
with a tutoring program. We need to let them know that they are worthy,
loveable, and have the potential to do anything they set their minds to.
They need to learn how to love themselves instead of thinking they’ll find
love by giving their bodies to men who don’t love and value them. They need
to see a future for themselves. This will stop the high OOW birth rates.

But hating another person is like drinking poison so that they can drop
dead. Resenting Black men will not help any Black women find happiness.

sleepyccs says:

Did you create the Gabrielle Union meme?
It seems like BM are trying to use propaganda to get other races to hate
and attack BW for them.

Just2Intense says:

1st Of all black women need to stop breeding like rats, cut that bs out!
Being a babymama is a guarantee for spinsterhood & decent black men look at
you as sluts. Black men who are anti-black women or colorstruck let him
roll, ya never gonna change his opinions no matter what. 

Mandy JustdoitAlready says:

These are all bitter older black man I’ve not seen one man between the age
of 21-30 agree with this b/c they are not limited to the type of black
woman that these men are now limited to. Eventually they will die out and
take their 1950’s taught self hatred with them. The world will eventually
see each other as people and not colors and these type of people will die
off. I love my strong black man and he loves me and I know many other black
people that have the same thing. Don’t feed into the hype ignore them b/c
you giving them energy even negative energy is helping them to
thrive…Fire can never defeat fire let’s keep them controlled and let them
all burn.

70sbaby4life2 says:

What’s the point of being loyal to a group of men that look at you in
disgust? I’ve been there, done that. The truth of the matter is that
black men hate black women because they are black like them. They look at
black women as a struggle to remind them how poor they are. They feel like
black women are the reason why they are not progressing in the mainstream.

Dan neeah says:

The Black Feminist Media:1)Blame black men 4 EVERTHING wrong in the black
community 2)Attack/discourage WW who like BM & 3)Justify bw& wm
relations 4)repeat over & over

Ms Ve.you just did a video titled~ “IS IT INEVITABLE?About bw with wm.where
u didnt even bash bw. So im gonna guess you were indirectly encouraging
those type of IR relations.
Then in the next vid ~WHY BW SHUN THEM? You tell bm to stay away.

You cant have it both ways.+Black women have always had their
preferences.Do BM complain?No, we say thats life, cant do anything about
it, time to move on.

Gella stars says:

These black men are ratchet and satanic! They are dumb idiots ! They are
stupid ass hell! They’re only hurting themselves ! We all know that the
other colors don’t give a fuck about them, that’s how they get a way with
killing these black men off and putting them in jail for 30 years for
selling drugs! They actually believe getting with the other colors of women
will make them be like a white men lol that’s a fucking joke! The whole
world hates black people but they really hates black men to the core!! 

pookiebear97 says:

Our race is done que the fat lady, I hate to say it because I’m involved in
a black group but our mentality is so warped even if Dr. King or Malcolm
came back they wouldn’t listen. R.I.P Black America:(

Dwain Anderson says:

What you have to understand a few things:1. Is that before social media,
men had NO platform to express their disdain for the shit black women do.
While women have had and still do have the racist white media backing them
every time they want to rant about us. 2. For the men that you are talking
about, they’re a SMALL group of black men in the community. I see dark
skinned black women with men in their lives all the time, not saying it
doesn’t happen but I wouldn’t say the average black man cares about your
skin tone. If we think you’re hot, you’re hot. End of story.

Vince Rashaad says:

The name of the vid was Natural BW and White Men. Check the link in the box
even if you don’t watch the vid

ScripturesNoVainOpinions says:

A good black man is not determined cause he puts black women on high all
day. Thats the problem now black women cant be corrected they feel their
goddesses and queens and they cant do wrong. Thats why its quicker for men
to understand faults then black women its easy to blame us. Some men have
been good to black women and after being done wrong have smarten up instead
of taking the bullshit as many men are still doing. How many women does a
man have to go through to find a woman thats is in order? Shit black women
do it to themselves they pick men over and over again and repeat the cycle
that cant be denied.

JaneStone says:

I skipped through the video. I’ve heard enough of it over the years. Black
women are going to have to come to this realization. Black Americans will
be bred out. They can either keep breeding unwanted Black babies with Black
men. Or they can get their act together and marry interracially. The truth
is, even if all Black women went natural and had fit bodies, were not
attitudinal, etc. Black men by and large would favor mixed Black women, and
non Black women. That is how it’s always been. Do the research. Now that
Black men have access to non Black women, there is no turning Back. The
vast majority of those who reach success will more and more marry
interracially. Even if you were with him when he was still working towards
success. Most Black men do not care to create a successful Black community
within America. And if you look at the UK, Blacks have an even higher rate
of interracial marriage. The women almost match the men. For a long time,
Black British women didn’t suffer the inferiority complex that a lot of
African American women suffer with. However, sadly, the spread of Hip Hop
is changing that.

The culture that Black men created and proliferated has taken many many
Black women out of their natural way of being. As a people we are jovial
and have our own, I guess you could say, swagger to ourselves. Our natural
disposition is what inspired our style of Gospel, Blues, Jazz, R&B, Soul,
Harlem Renaissance poetry/stories, new forms of dance etc. But the lack of
protection mixed with this [email protected] up myopic Hip Hop culture, has stripped
away the true nature of many Black women. Yet it has done the opposite to
many Black men. Black men are very comfortable in their Blackness. They see
it as an asset when interacting with the opposite sex, while many Black
women see it as a hindrance. This is another type of thinking that needs to
change. When you deal with people on a one on one level, social constructs
take a back seat to your innate confidence and personality. Black women
don’t have to act like anyone else to find love. I would venture to say
that most of us are talented singers, we have many qualities that are
innate to us that we need to venerate in order to get us Back on our
squares so to speak. Just give up on these Black men and focus on
yourselves.

bigkev9539 says:

I used to watch a lot of videos and have strong opinions about this, but I
quit subscribing to videos by people such as Tommy Sotomayor, akwesi100,
and David Carroll because I realize that their commentary really isn’t
about fixing anything, just like a lot of the Black Feminist rhetoric. They
would would rather go back and forth, spewing hatred and confusion, rather
than putting their “egos”/emotions to the side and addressing the
collective self-hatred that Black people collectively have been subject to.
That is why it is so easy for Racism-White Supremacy to play us like a
fiddle against each other. We become so desperate for a swift solution that
we will fall for anything that even remotely looks promising, no matter how
damaging it is on the back end. In order for true progress to be made,
Black People have to collectively get on the same page.

MrZlathan3 says:

We act as if black men and black women grow up in different cultures. We
both grow up being taught in hundreds of subliminal and overt ways that
blackness equals ugliness and inferiority and whiteness equals beauty and
superiority. We may express it differently to a degree but most of us are
from a ratchet culture of self hate. Some of us rise above it. Some of us
were inoculated to a degree with information. In general it’s perfectly
understandable that a good sane black woman would have issues with black
men and a good sane black man would have issues with black women. It’s
understandable that both sides have trouble finding a good mate. As a black
man I’m not about to attempt to deny the bullshit of black males. Black
women should not get in the denial game when we all see the ocean of
overdone blond weave wearing ratchet black women out there.

kafilarosa says:

Biracial kids hate their black fathers. So lets encourage them to kill
those mutha fuckers off. 

Derek Cannon says:

I watch many videos like this on both sides. We all have our opinions and
beliefs that need to be respected. We need to be clear when speaking our
beliefs and also be careful not to generalize. We also have to be aware of
hidden agendas in video posts and comments. With that said be wise about
what you receive and personal views you form. You have to remember we are a
divided people and there is an agenda to keep us that way and that is why
we’re the only ones on YT complaining. Again, be wise.

sporo2000 says:

+ve marie I am beginning to get tired of faceless *apparently black women*
who keep ranting negative stuff about BM/BW relationships and don’t want to
put any real effort in turning things around for future generations. Do you
know what I dislike about bloggers like you? You believe in foisting your
own mindset on younger generations. If things have gotten fucked up in
your generation why don’t you want to make the effort to change things for
future generatons, instead about going about *your issues*?

For all I know women like you and +MsARCHDUCHESS , +12 Dreams Full and +
70sbaby4life2 could be white people from Kazazkstan payed by faceless white
owned multinational corporations whose main agenda is to keep black women
from reproducing by fostering doubt and division among those who are
willing to engage in relationships. If you want to be a blogger do you want
to be a well known Gina McCauley or http://www.whataboutourdaughters.com/
or a faceless Khadija Nassif
http://www.whataboutourdaughters.com/waod/2014/1/15/happy-functional-black-families-day-the-sad-and-bitter-decli.html
.

Cowardly *supposedly black women* like you always make Tommy Sotomayor look
better because at least he is bold enough to display the face behind the
divisive opinions.

Show up or shut up.

N'Dany Redd Muda says:

Why they need a mulato Nation ??

6:10 LOL Tommy Sotomayor, I was needed the opinion of Black Woman on the
black Community 

RestAsA remedy says:

lately i’ve read quite a few comments from brothers stating that there is
not an influx of white women who want to be with brothers, even though some
youtubers give the impression that there are. the bad part about TS is that
he is so vocal, that i’m sure a good portion of white america believes him.
it’s no wonder that non-blacks are turning away from desiring bm. the TSs
might be representing ALL black males to white america. Therefore, white
women may perceive BM to be like TS. Which, honestly, TS is scary and
creepy. TS is scary and creepy to even black america, so I know he’s
scaring the shit out of white america.

Vince Rashaad says:

Robert Perkins known as Dat nigga wit the tattoos is one of the countless
black people who has a natural hair Facebook group. It also occurred to me
as I watch this that I get constant people adding me to fb groups that
target bw as women to appreciate. From dark skin to natural hair to black
relationships groups.
You almost have a laser focus on the most negative elements out there as a
justification for another motive that I’m guessing has white/Asians in the
future.
Tyrone Magnus gf Sara Caissey just did a vid called Real Black Women are
Ghetto. Most bw can’t get past the title to hear her on point msg. They
emotionally challenge her tone and not the substance of what she says.
People are fed up with not being able to tell a woman in a house on fire to
get out without her snapping that she won’t be ordered by anyone to exit
the building.
All those vids you showed except Steve Williams were guys who always go on
and on about bw. But doesn’t Steve have a legit question about parental
involvement? How was that hate/bashing. For God’s sake that’s a legitimate
question. HE basically said the house is on fire and you take that as hate?
Geeeeez
Tommy is just a nut at this point and any1 hearing him out deserves to be
offended.
But a razor focus on negativity when in all actuality there are many groups
and people with just as much positive to say is swimming in the sewer by
choice. I can’t imagine that you could date a bm and not have at least a
dozen pre conceived ideals that would ruin any attempt at forming a deep
connection. Even if the vibe was cool, you would seem to have too much of
an expectation of negative for anything to work.Especially when you say
most bm feel this way and that is just flatly false.
God bless and good luck in ur search for whoever of what ethnic race group
you choose too be with.
Look at the link in my vid interracism/interracial dating that i did last
week. You will see that you are trapped in a negative matrix. The
overwhelming majority of bm marry bw and yess that includes rich black
males and athletes.As Lashid4u pointed out, it’s IR couples that get put
front and center by media.

ScripturesNoVainOpinions says:

Those men spoke the truth, Im not bugging off of color cause light and dark
skin black women in general are bogus..Men need to use them and wise up and
free themselves from these selfish women. If black men want a relationship
it has to be with women of the other nations only time a black man should
look to a black woman is if she is considerate,submissive etc which is
rare. 

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